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the one-child policy in china has had a similar effect – people are only allowed one in towns and cities so they do backstreet ultrasound and abortions if they get a girl. Classrooms are full of one girl to nine boys. It is causing a massive percentage swing of boys in the country which can only mean girls will be in short supply. This worries me greatly as too many men in a society nearly always causes anger, frustration and war. I like your quotes from Judges. The novel ‘the Children of men’ by P.D. James shows a world that bodes badly when women stop producing children and society ages to unsustainable levels. It is quite an omen. I don’t know if I’ll press send at the end of this paragraph.
Personally, I had a boy first and was disappointed to get a girl second as the boy was great fun and the girl was so vastly different and unpredictable!! God bless them both, they are fantastic, and the girl is a really good tomboy with a feminine streak, so I got the best of both. Enjoy your boys you have been truly blessed.
Kate, the film addresses the one child policy as well. In particular a couple who have one daughter then have an “oops” baby. They are given the choice to abort or have a baby with no citizenship (unless you pay $30,000). No citizenship means no healthcare or school. I hadn’t heard of that novel by P.D. James. I will need to check it out.
Katie. My heart is so sick and heavy. I have 4 girls (1 boy) and where I live, they won’t tell you if you the gender of your child (even when I was 8 months pregnant, on my 5th month of bedrest) in certain hospitals and sonography clinics BECAUSE the girls are aborted. IN CANADA! At first I was annoyed that they wouldn’t tell me (or would they tell my physician) and I knew that there were maybe a few people who just wanted boys (strong Indo-Canadian population here) but I didn’t think it was “that” bad – except when the GOVERNMENT says we aren’t going to let you kill your babies because you just want sons – then 1. Good for the government, 2. So what if it’s slightly inconvenient for me to not know if I need girl or boy clothes – LIVES ARE BEING SAVED.
Thank you for sharing this. I hadn’t heard about the movie. How do you acquire it for a showing?
my heart is sick to read your comment. It’s interesting to me how the topic of “gendercide” is uniting those who fight for women’s rights and those who fight pro-life. It’s become an issue of being given the opportunity to choose life. Thank you for sharing your experience. Praying and praying for this issue.